Forgiveness in Fellowship
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” (Colossians 3:13 NIV)
Devotional Thought - You did it! All week you have thought and prayed about your relationships with fellow believers. You have asked the Lord to help you to be the type of friend that you would like to have in your life. You are being intentional about how you spend your time with others. Great job!
Now, let’s consider a challenge of genuine fellowship: the practice of forgiveness. Human nature is inherently flawed, and we are all susceptible to making mistakes and causing hurt. Romans 3:23 says, "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Recognizing this universal truth is crucial in approaching the issue of forgiveness. It means acknowledging that we, too, are capable of erring and that everyone around us is also navigating their own imperfections.
Given this reality, it is a must to decide in advance to embrace forgiveness as a way of life. Before offenses occur, before feelings are hurt or trust is broken, determine within your heart to respond with forgiveness. When someone inadvertently hurts your feelings or, more grievously, betrays your trust, allow your first instinct to be one of grace and pardon. This does not imply condoning harmful behavior or disregarding the pain inflicted. Rather, it signifies a commitment to releasing bitterness, letting go of resentment, and choosing to extend the same mercy that the Lord has so abundantly shown to you.
Prayer - Lord, help me to forgive others. Today, I lay down my rights to retribution and entrust all of my grievances to You, as the ultimate judge. You were always willing to forgive and I want to mirror You by extending forgiveness to others, even when it is difficult and feels undeserved. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Follow Up Activity - Make a list of those you may have unforgiveness towards and choose to forgive each person. If possible, consider reconciliation. Ask your Life Group Leader or trusted Christian friend to help you make amends.
